What To Wear To A Funeral

by admin May 23, 2021

You know the old adage: there are two certainties in life: death and taxes. Each year we have to face off with the taxman to send him a portion of our hard-earned money, but that’s part of what keeps our country running and, in my opinion, is an expense that is worth it. It’s when considering the other part of that adage, death, that it’s harder to find a silver lining. We’ve all had people in our lives that have come and passed, and it never seems to get easier. While it’s unpleasant to think of a funeral, let alone have to attend one, it’s also difficult to try to think of what to wear to one. When thinking of a funeral outfit, typically, the only requirement is to wear dark colors to communicate a time of mourning and sympathy.

However, there are a few unspoken rules when dressing for a funeral. Dress modestly, keep jewelry simple, be comfortable, avoid loud colors and patterns, and make sure your clothes are ironed. Here are our top picks that follow these rules. While it may seem like a strange topic to discuss, when the time comes, and we’re getting ready, the last thing you want to think about is what to wear.

Trousers

When picking out a pair of trousers, try to find something comfortable. You might have to sit for a while, and you don’t want your pants cutting into your stomach or making you get too hot. Personally, I prefer a pair with pockets so I can keep some tissue on hand.

Theory Treeca Pant in Crepe, $88.50 | Kick It Grey High-Waisted Trouser Pants, $44 | Reiss Slim Fit Tailored Berry Trousers, $73 | Boden Hampshire Ponte Wideleg Pants, $110 | Everlane Italian GoWeave Crop Trouser, $86 | Old Navy High-Waisted Super Skinny Ankle Pants, $25

Tops

When selecting a top, again, go with comfort. Find an understated color, and make sure it’s modest and an appropriate style.

Hidden Button Long Sleeve Blouse, $19.97+ | Pleated Puff Sleeve Deep V Top, $39.99 | Everlane Silky Cotton Split-Neck Blouse, $40 | Banana Republic Smocked-Neck Blouse, $29.99 | Madewell Striped Sheer-Sleeve Knit Top, $49.50 | Land’s End Supima Top, $20.96 | White House Black Market Poplin Button-Down Shirt, $69

Jackets

If the weather is chilly outside or you anticipate sitting in a cool church, you might consider pairing a jacket with your funeral outfit. I like to have a light blazer along in case I get too cold, and again, I’ve never regretted having an extra pocket for tissues. On a day as somber as a funeral, it’s nice to have more than one layer of clothing, so you’re prepared for anything.

Lands’ End Year’rounder Collarless Blazer, $129.99 | JCREW Going-out blazer in stretch twill, $168 | Karl Lagerfeld Double Breasted Trench Coat, $150.75 | Ann Taylor Petite Relaxed Roll Sleeve Blazer, $179 | JCREW Parke blazer in Italian stretch wool, $288

Skirts

A skirt is a nice way to dress up but remain comfortable when attending a funeral. To confirm the length is appropriate, make sure you do a ‘sit test’ before leaving your house. The last thing you want is to have to keep tugging down on your skirt while trying to pay attention to the service.

Jewelry

Keep it simple. Wear jewelry that is understated and classy and won’t jangle around during the service.

Dresses

Choose an understated dress that is comfortable, modest, and weather-appropriate.

Shoes & Other Accessories

Because you’ll sit through much of the service, you can elect to wear pretty much any pair of shoes you’d like. Keep in mind if you’re going to attend an outdoor event, you might not want anything that will be hard to walk in. I always keep a pair of dark glasses available so I can cover my red eyes, and I like to have a scarf or pretty hair tie to dress up my outfit a bit while still remaining subtle.

When attending a funeral, the last thing you want to worry about is what you’re wearing. It’s not about looking your best; it’s about planning ahead and staying prepared. Wear something comfortable, modest, and weather-appropriate, and remember that what really matters is that you’re there supporting family and friends and remembering someone that has passed on.

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